Marriage

Wife Changing Surname

Q: What is the ruling regarding the wife changing her surname once she is married? A: This is an earlier response to a similar article written by one woman My comments on the article follow hereunder: The writer states that Ulema have branded the practice of a wife taking her husband’s surname as bid’ah, but …

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Talking with Fiancee

Q: Is it allowed to talk with fiancee over phone? A. A. Premarital relations are not allowed in Islam. Even if there is no physical sexual relationship, it is still not permissible. The Hadeeth explains: It is narrated from Sayyidina Abu Hurayrah (Radhiyallaahu Anhu) that Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi wa Sallam) said: Fornication (Zina) of the …

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Love in Marriage

Q: What does the Quraan say about how a man should feel towards his wife? Is it mentioned anywhere that he should “love” his wife? Or is the wife just meant to be “cared” for and is she just a “responsibility”? This is a question that would really help to understand what to expect from …

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Compatibility and Marriage

Q: I want to know is it permissible for my father to stipulate that my marriage can only take place to a Kholvad boy? A. Islam allows parents to consider compatibility in culture and family status when marrying off their daughter, for this can contribute towards a better understanding between spouses. Although advisable, it is …

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